Answered She is out of your league. What do you do?

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No such thing as out of the league. You approach her with kindness, honesty, respect, and be upfront with what your intentions are, you got the game. And it also comes down to being confident in yourself, taking the lead and treating the girl right. Sometimes girls say things just to see if you really care about them to not listen to them and prove them wrong that you do care for them and want to treat them right. It's why females are always more creative and smarter than men at thinking. Men are more aggressive, females are protective but weigh in the pros and cons. Not saying all men are like that lol. It's all different situations :)
 

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Please stay on topic from here on out.

To answer the question... If a girl actually tells you that, then you should work on the things shes expecting her future partner to have. That is if you truly love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her.

If you don't, then just move on really but if you are persistent, then you should take the time in fixing everything that she sees as negative, so that it helps change her mind about you.
 

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What do you do if the girl you like is out of your league and she says this to you ?
It's kind of difficult to give a proper advice on this without knowing much about it.
But if it helps, I guess a good start would be you becoming friends with her so she gets to know you better and you would know her better too.
 
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flr0fr the bch can be a goddess for all i care, if she gots a shit personality which clearly she does, im swipin left
 

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Say ok then prove otherwise. If you're gonna cave it doesn't really show much confidence.. you shouldn't let her be the judge of weither or not you can make her happy anyway. It's up to you to show you can.
 
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Really depends on the situation.
If she gives you the vibe that you aren't anything to her, then I would just walk away.
If she gives you the vibe that she's doing her best, then stay.
I mean: there is no such as 'league'. Some people match, some don't.
Just make sure that you feel 'good' in this situation, if it's better to step out from it, then do it.
 
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People can be really rude at times. It is up to you what is it that you want. Do you want to be with such a girl or not.
 
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What do you do if the girl you like is out of your league and she says this to you ?
You need to sort out somethings first if you really like this girl try talking to her that what is it that she really wants and why does she feel that way. Is she asking something that is reasonable or not. If you are willing to make those changes or not.
 
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No such thing as out of the league. You approach her with kindness, honesty, respect, and be upfront with what your intentions are, you got the game. And it also comes down to being confident in yourself, taking the lead and treating the girl right. Sometimes girls say things just to see if you really care about them to not listen to them and prove them wrong that you do care for them and want to treat them right. It's why females are always more creative and smarter than men at thinking. Men are more aggressive, females are protective but weigh in the pros and cons. Not saying all men are like that lol. It's all different situations :)
Get urself a man like this! <3
 

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